Month: August 2019

Drop the #shame and pick up the #gain!

Is life treating you so hard? How far have you reached and how far have you fallen? Will you rise again? Who will help me?

We trust people, friends and families to help us when we are down. Yes, some will help you while some will never want to see your call at all because you needed help.

It is human to help and not! But with God is helping all the time as long as you don’t give up on Him.

Those who treated you bad in your challenging period will only get their own coin if you wait and stay in Lord. There is surely a point in every man’s life to feel the  pain and trials…how well we survived is what interests God the most.

“President Bhuari should have learnt his own lesson by now by the outcome and trails of the Judiciary”.

Drop the shame and seek help, and pick up those gains. A list of hard times:
1. Health or medical challenge
2. Loss of job
3. Unemployment
4. No sales
5. Loss of profit
6. Salary delay
7. Sudden displacement (flood, famine etc)
8. No retirement benefit
9. Homeless at 60
10. Poverty disease etc…

We need help either you are employed or not, we all need help. We can only get help when we ask. Drop the shame and open our mouth to tell. Your immediate next door neighbour whom you dislike so much could be the key to your next level of change. As long as your lips are not closed to ask, knock and seek for the assistance you need. You can survive a length of time by lending and leaning on, shamelessly.

#Mockers will mock you behind you and even before you but as long as you can get what you want is your gain. Learn from the mistakes of others…except you have given up to live and die in your trials even though that is not God’s will for your life. Cursed is anyone who is hung on a cross and so also is committing any form of #suicide.

The Priest was accused of sexual immorality by his parishioners and committed suicide…why? If being a Priest is demoralizing why not cry out for a solution. Why shame and disgrace the Church; if seminary has thought no good moral justification? Come out of your shame and be separate.

However one is faced in the trial times as listed above….are periods of adversity. For as many that knew about your challenge you begin to know those who really loves you. Some will be waiting for you to come so that they flop you (human nature). Please, blame no one! If anyone refuses you in your adversity kindly move to the next. A turn around will surely happen that your shame becomes gain in order for you to tell a good story.

You are unique in your own way! That is why I shared the post on my linkedin page to find yourself. Greater things lies ahead of you as I urge you to drop the shame and pick up the gain by asking God for help so that people will help you. Get #empowered!

https://www.linkedin.com/posts/davakinwilliams_findyourself-findurself-patience-activity-6572194784050458624-xb6b

What is Confidence? We can say it’s guarantee, trust, reliability, assurance, boldness, surety, reputation in someone; husband, wife, son, daughter, brother, sister, aunt, uncle, man of God, friend, or company, institution, state or nation.

Well, that’s mine expression of confidence you may express yours the way it sounds to you. You can not impose confidence in someone. Confidence is as a result of progressive outcomes emanating from relationships, reputation or integrity. It is a function of performance within and outside a circle.

In another way round, we say someone lacks confidence in answering questions, in a crowded area, public or before a higher authority. Here we say it’s behavioural and the same time a function of judgement.

We can now deduce that #Confidence could be used classically, objectively and also subjectively….one word!

Confidence is a good quality “adjective” quantifying competence in anyone. Every establishment need confidence competent employees. Try not to break (loose) your confidence in others and others in you.

Confidence once broken, takes time to amend. #MYWATCH, Now and Then pg. 64. by Olusegun Obasanjo.

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Succumbing to any form of pressure is a good sign of weakness! This was evidence in the administration of Nigeria.

A leader should not be surrounded by mediocres; self-interest, self-centered, lack of democratic individuals either in their personal business, home and Public and private discussions. If anyone would or could be so democratic at all, it would reflect in one on one conversation and also seen in a group, teamwork discussions.

As a leader, your circle of close advisers should be widened, decisions should not be based on primordial interests. Looking deep into issues before making your decision; weighing the task at present and future and solidifying it in the best interest of others or a nation.

Pressure and Decision-making are very crucial to gain and losses. Pressure calls for action and the action calls for Decisions. The best outcome of the decision makes you a true good Leader.

Leaders who makes wrong decisions must be willing to admit It, be also willing to take corrections to get back on track. Alas! It maybe difficult but the step must be taken out of shame, humility, remorse and good listening brings back the integrity. This attitude was shown by the then Economic adviser in US during Obama administration when the congress summoned him on the state of the Economic meltdown which was unforseen and unplanned for at that time.

Leadership is regarding others, considering them before yourself. Never succumb to any pressure that makes you take wrong decisions.

Personally, I have taken time to reason along a #quadratic equation formula

1. + × – = –

2. – × – = +

3. – × + = –

4. + × + = +

Equate this with your advisers. Identify the negative people around you and apply number 2. Identify the positive people around you and apply number 4. Now you know that you do not place both negative and positive people for positive outcome. This is not kinetic but character disposition. To be democratic you need the combination of the negatives for positive result.

We learn our lessons everyday! Never compromise your standard in any form. Do not sign any agreement without good understanding of what is written. Well, there are risks to be taken at times but not in all cases.

When you are under pressure, deal with it widely and in Prayers. Succumbing to pressure as a weakness is not the end but an experience. Once it has been identified you need to actualize your strength thereof!

If you run away from stated goals because they can be used to judge you and your performance, you also run away from an important instrument to guide, direct, focus, drive, and inspire yourself to great and incremental performance. In short, you cannot be a great achiever. #MYWATCH pg. 634 Political and Public Affairs conclusion by Olusegun Obasanjo.

This is a great advice for all goal setters and goal getters. There are goals in goal and missions in a mission.

Do not settle for less in your choices and opinions. There is great element of good in every bad. You can create diversion in your goals to achieve the main #Goal. Stay focused and get it done! Says….David Akin-Williams! Chao!

Most people who bring positive changes are initially misunderstood, but by the time their work and reforms are appreciated, they are gone.  Page 633a #MyWatch, Political and Public Affairs.

This is extremely true! Only the people whom you worked with, worked with you or you served could testify to this.

You can share your experience or comment about this if it has occurred to you, relatively. Thanks David.

https://www.linkedin.com/posts/saheb-youssef-bakhsh_createtheedge-togetherisbetter-australia-ugcPost-6563331774011805696-WJ20