The Conventional Retail Cycle Part

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By David Akin-Williams

Retail is a very lucrative business venture for any and every interested person. RETAIL is the most popular common of business from generation to generation. It is the main arm of commerce that solely rely on Profit making.

Most sole business owners (sole proprietorship) or one man business, self-made millionaires emerge grossly from retailing.

Retailing has in itself it’s diverse nature in progression. We mean, there are classes of retailing. Micro and Macro enterprise retailing.

1. The Micro Retailing

This is the beginning of retailing whereby ideas are improved from different experiences in dealing with people. The principle of profiteering; multiplying, addition, gainings, increase and duplication are all at play here. Good simple accounting knowledge is developed at this stage. A single manager manages funds from plough back sales, meetings members, probably business joint members, cooperative society, family supports etc.

This retail category owner manages risk or try to risk nothing at all. “Risk” seems an option in the stage…but it’s always embedded in the business.

Someone who losses good millions worth of goods on a duplex retail apartment to fire; No insurance, not enough savings or funds to rebuild the business. For such, it would take much time, if not never to recover from such loss or losses. A single owner or family members who undertakes this stage of business with determination to measure up with western trends will take a huge risk to reinvest more into the business especially when the target and expected falls or exceeds their imagination.

2. The Macro Retailing

The risk in running a macro retailing business is very huge. Expansion is the first phase of risk taking before every other nodrigims follows. The macro entails investments in more workforce, more vendors, strategic experts, technocrats, etc.

It is real business here. In this, the conventional retail cycle is conceived at this stage. This now become a new platform, dynamism in service and processes, designation and portfolio formations are defined here.

Microsoft should have become “Macrosft” company by now but the “td” might have prevented such. Aliko Dangote of Nigeria…these are Macro Retailers who have invented into multi duplicity of retailing. Category of entrepreneurship is now defined by these men. Alibaba is another on the e- commerce rendering e-services. Most macro retailers are also manufacturers. They produce goods and also sell in their own residing outlets; suppliers or distributors before the real micro retailers takes the product to the final consumers. Advanced Macro Retailers we may say.

Justrite Superstores was primarily an individual kind of retail company and overtime falls in the category of Macro Retailing, M-Chris mobile technology is one Macro, Grocery Bazaar etc…..

These and many more have broken away from Micro by taking the risks with full force of finance and insurance to stand out. They have evolved using the dynamism of the conventional retail cycle to increase profits and grow their business.

Why group retailing into to Micro and Macro? The two adjectival nouns, taking into consideration well suits the Retailing practices has it is been carried out in the world today. Every producer wants return in form of liquidity or asset. If that is not achieved then the production stops. The more reason government come into play to support, invest, develop, invent, in so many projects to shape the macro economic principle.

No one can have it all. We read that Government give to the people at the same time they take from the people. Give and take in retailing is also practiced in government. Retailing or retail practice is a phenomenon.

The conventional retail cycle is the combination of the Micro and Macro retail practices in the real world sense. This conventional retail cycle was developed and conceived base on experience from the traditional and Modern retail practices. th2USJZX95

 

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The Prayer for Nigeria in Distress for every home.

Nigeria in Distress

All powerful and merciful father, You are the God of justice, love and peace. You rule over the nations of the earth. Power and might are in your hands and no one can withstand you. We present our country Nigeria before you. We praise and thank you for you are the source of all we have and are. We are sorry for all the sins we have committed and for good deeds we have failed to do. In your loving forgiveness, keep us safe from the punishment we deserve. Lord, we are weighed down not only by uncertainties, but also by moral, economic and political problems. Listen to the cries of your people who confidently turn to you, God of infinite goodness, our strength in adversity, our health in weakness, our comfort in sorrow; Be merciful to us your people. Spare this nation Nigeria from chaos, anarchy and doom. Bless us with your kingdom of justice, love and peace. We ask this through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

Humanae Vitae

Humanae Vitae (July 25, 1968)

ENCYCLICAL LETTER
HUMANAE VITAE
OF THE SUPREME PONTIFF
PAUL VI
TO HIS VENERABLE BROTHERS
THE PATRIARCHS, ARCHBISHOPS, BISHOPS
AND OTHER LOCAL ORDINARIES
IN PEACE AND COMMUNION WITH THE APOSTOLIC SEE,
TO THE CLERGY AND FAITHFUL OF THE WHOLE CATHOLIC WORLD, AND TO ALL MEN OF GOOD WILL,
ON THE REGULATION OF BIRTH

Honored Brothers and Dear Sons,
Health and Apostolic Benediction.

The transmission of human life is a most serious role in which married people collaborate freely and responsibly with God the Creator. It has always been a source of great joy to them, even though it sometimes entails many difficulties and hardships.

The fulfillment of this duty has always posed problems to the conscience of married people, but the recent course of human society and the concomitant changes have provoked new questions. The Church cannot ignore these questions, for they concern matters intimately connected with the life and happiness of human beings.

I.
PROBLEM AND COMPETENCY
OF THE MAGISTERIUM

2. The changes that have taken place are of considerable importance and varied in nature. In the first place there is the rapid increase in population which has made many fear that world population is going to grow faster than available resources, with the consequence that many families and developing countries would be faced with greater hardships. This can easily induce public authorities to be tempted to take even harsher measures to avert this danger. There is also the fact that not only working and housing conditions but the greater demands made both in the economic and educational field pose a living situation in which it is frequently difficult these days to provide properly for a large family.

Also noteworthy is a new understanding of the dignity of woman and her place in society, of the value of conjugal love in marriage and the relationship of conjugal acts to this love.

But the most remarkable development of all is to be seen in man’s stupendous progress in the domination and rational organization of the forces of nature to the point that he is endeavoring to extend this control over every aspect of his own life—over his body, over his mind and emotions, over his social life, and even over the laws that regulate the transmission of life.

New Questions

3. This new state of things gives rise to new questions. Granted the conditions of life today and taking into account the relevance of married love to the harmony and mutual fidelity of husband and wife, would it not be right to review the moral norms in force till now, especially when it is felt that these can be observed only with the gravest difficulty, sometimes only by heroic effort?

Moreover, if one were to apply here the so called principle of totality, could it not be accepted that the intention to have a less prolific but more rationally planned family might transform an action which renders natural processes infertile into a licit and provident control of birth? Could it not be admitted, in other words, that procreative finality applies to the totality of married life rather than to each single act? A further question is whether, because people are more conscious today of their responsibilities, the time has not come when the transmission of life should be regulated by their intelligence and will rather than through the specific rhythms of their own bodies.

Interpreting the Moral Law

4. This kind of question requires from the teaching authority of the Church a new and deeper reflection on the principles of the moral teaching on marriage—a teaching which is based on the natural law as illuminated and enriched by divine Revelation.

No member of the faithful could possibly deny that the Church is competent in her magisterium to interpret the natural moral law. It is in fact indisputable, as Our predecessors have many times declared, (l) that Jesus Christ, when He communicated His divine power to Peter and the other Apostles and sent them to teach all nations His commandments, (2) constituted them as the authentic guardians and interpreters of the whole moral law, not only, that is, of the law of the Gospel but also of the natural law. For the natural law, too, declares the will of God, and its faithful observance is necessary for men’s eternal salvation. (3)

In carrying out this mandate, the Church has always issued appropriate documents on the nature of marriage, the correct use of conjugal rights, and the duties of spouses. These documents have been more copious in recent times. (4)

Special Studies

5. The consciousness of the same responsibility induced Us to confirm and expand the commission set up by Our predecessor Pope John XXIII, of happy memory, in March, 1963. This commission included married couples as well as many experts in the various fields pertinent to these questions. Its task was to examine views and opinions concerning married life, and especially on the correct regulation of births; and it was also to provide the teaching authority of the Church with such evidence as would enable it to give an apt reply in this matter, which not only the faithful but also the rest of the world were waiting for. (5)

When the evidence of the experts had been received, as well as the opinions and advice of a considerable number of Our brethren in the episcopate—some of whom sent their views spontaneously, while others were requested by Us to do so—We were in a position to weigh with more precision all the aspects of this complex subject. Hence We are deeply grateful to all those concerned.

The Magisterium’s Reply

6. However, the conclusions arrived at by the commission could not be considered by Us as definitive and absolutely certain, dispensing Us from the duty of examining personally this serious question. This was all the more necessary because, within the commission itself, there was not complete agreement concerning the moral norms to be proposed, and especially because certain approaches and criteria for a solution to this question had emerged which were at variance with the moral doctrine on marriage constantly taught by the magisterium of the Church.

Consequently, now that We have sifted carefully the evidence sent to Us and intently studied the whole matter, as well as prayed constantly to God, We, by virtue of the mandate entrusted to Us by Christ, intend to give Our reply to this series of grave questions.

II.
DOCTRINAL PRINCIPLES

7. The question of human procreation, like every other question which touches human life, involves more than the limited aspects specific to such disciplines as biology, psychology, demography or sociology. It is the whole man and the whole mission to which he is called that must be considered: both its natural, earthly aspects and its supernatural, eternal aspects. And since in the attempt to justify artificial methods of birth control many appeal to the demands of married love or of responsible parenthood, these two important realities of married life must be accurately defined and analyzed. This is what We mean to do, with special reference to what the Second Vatican Council taught with the highest authority in its Pastoral Constitution on the Church in the World of Today.

God’s Loving Design

8. Married love particularly reveals its true nature and nobility when we realize that it takes its origin from God, who “is love,” (6) the Father “from whom every family in heaven and on earth is named.” (7)

Marriage, then, is far from being the effect of chance or the result of the blind evolution of natural forces. It is in reality the wise and provident institution of God the Creator, whose purpose was to effect in man His loving design. As a consequence, husband and wife, through that mutual gift of themselves, which is specific and exclusive to them alone, develop that union of two persons in which they perfect one another, cooperating with God in the generation and rearing of new lives.

The marriage of those who have been baptized is, in addition, invested with the dignity of a sacramental sign of grace, for it represents the union of Christ and His Church.

Married Love

9. In the light of these facts the characteristic features and exigencies of married love are clearly indicated, and it is of the highest importance to evaluate them exactly.

This love is above all fully human, a compound of sense and spirit. It is not, then, merely a question of natural instinct or emotional drive. It is also, and above all, an act of the free will, whose trust is such that it is meant not only to survive the joys and sorrows of daily life, but also to grow, so that husband and wife become in a way one heart and one soul, and together attain their human fulfillment.

It is a love which is total—that very special form of personal friendship in which husband and wife generously share everything, allowing no unreasonable exceptions and not thinking solely of their own convenience. Whoever really loves his partner loves not only for what he receives, but loves that partner for the partner’s own sake, content to be able to enrich the other with the gift of himself.

Married love is also faithful and exclusive of all other, and this until death. This is how husband and wife understood it on the day on which, fully aware of what they were doing, they freely vowed themselves to one another in marriage. Though this fidelity of husband and wife sometimes presents difficulties, no one has the right to assert that it is impossible; it is, on the contrary, always honorable and meritorious. The example of countless married couples proves not only that fidelity is in accord with the nature of marriage, but also that it is the source of profound and enduring happiness.

Finally, this love is fecund. It is not confined wholly to the loving interchange of husband and wife; it also contrives to go beyond this to bring new life into being. “Marriage and conjugal love are by their nature ordained toward the procreation and education of children. Children are really the supreme gift of marriage and contribute in the highest degree to their parents’ welfare.” (8)

Responsible Parenthood

10. Married love, therefore, requires of husband and wife the full awareness of their obligations in the matter of responsible parenthood, which today, rightly enough, is much insisted upon, but which at the same time should be rightly understood. Thus, we do well to consider responsible parenthood in the light of its varied legitimate and interrelated aspects.

With regard to the biological processes, responsible parenthood means an awareness of, and respect for, their proper functions. In the procreative faculty the human mind discerns biological laws that apply to the human person. (9)

With regard to man’s innate drives and emotions, responsible parenthood means that man’s reason and will must exert control over them.

With regard to physical, economic, psychological and social conditions, responsible parenthood is exercised by those who prudently and generously decide to have more children, and by those who, for serious reasons and with due respect to moral precepts, decide not to have additional children for either a certain or an indefinite period of time.

Responsible parenthood, as we use the term here, has one further essential aspect of paramount importance. It concerns the objective moral order which was established by God, and of which a right conscience is the true interpreter. In a word, the exercise of responsible parenthood requires that husband and wife, keeping a right order of priorities, recognize their own duties toward God, themselves, their families and human society.

From this it follows that they are not free to act as they choose in the service of transmitting life, as if it were wholly up to them to decide what is the right course to follow. On the contrary, they are bound to ensure that what they do corresponds to the will of God the Creator. The very nature of marriage and its use makes His will clear, while the constant teaching of the Church spells it out. (10)

Observing the Natural Law

11. The sexual activity, in which husband and wife are intimately and chastely united with one another, through which human life is transmitted, is, as the recent Council recalled, “noble and worthy.” (11) It does not, moreover, cease to be legitimate even when, for reasons independent of their will, it is foreseen to be infertile. For its natural adaptation to the expression and strengthening of the union of husband and wife is not thereby suppressed. The fact is, as experience shows, that new life is not the result of each and every act of sexual intercourse. God has wisely ordered laws of nature and the incidence of fertility in such a way that successive births are already naturally spaced through the inherent operation of these laws. The Church, nevertheless, in urging men to the observance of the precepts of the natural law, which it interprets by its constant doctrine, teaches that each and every marital act must of necessity retain its intrinsic relationship to the procreation of human life. (12)

Union and Procreation

12. This particular doctrine, often expounded by the magisterium of the Church, is based on the inseparable connection, established by God, which man on his own initiative may not break, between the unitive significance and the procreative significance which are both inherent to the marriage act.

The reason is that the fundamental nature of the marriage act, while uniting husband and wife in the closest intimacy, also renders them capable of generating new life—and this as a result of laws written into the actual nature of man and of woman. And if each of these essential qualities, the unitive and the procreative, is preserved, the use of marriage fully retains its sense of true mutual love and its ordination to the supreme responsibility of parenthood to which man is called. We believe that our contemporaries are particularly capable of seeing that this teaching is in harmony with human reason.

Faithfulness to God’s Design

13. Men rightly observe that a conjugal act imposed on one’s partner without regard to his or her condition or personal and reasonable wishes in the matter, is no true act of love, and therefore offends the moral order in its particular application to the intimate relationship of husband and wife. If they further reflect, they must also recognize that an act of mutual love which impairs the capacity to transmit life which God the Creator, through specific laws, has built into it, frustrates His design which constitutes the norm of marriage, and contradicts the will of the Author of life. Hence to use this divine gift while depriving it, even if only partially, of its meaning and purpose, is equally repugnant to the nature of man and of woman, and is consequently in opposition to the plan of God and His holy will. But to experience the gift of married love while respecting the laws of conception is to acknowledge that one is not the master of the sources of life but rather the minister of the design established by the Creator. Just as man does not have unlimited dominion over his body in general, so also, and with more particular reason, he has no such dominion over his specifically sexual faculties, for these are concerned by their very nature with the generation of life, of which God is the source. “Human life is sacred—all men must recognize that fact,” Our predecessor Pope John XXIII recalled. “From its very inception it reveals the creating hand of God.” (13)

Unlawful Birth Control Methods

14. Therefore We base Our words on the first principles of a human and Christian doctrine of marriage when We are obliged once more to declare that the direct interruption of the generative process already begun and, above all, all direct abortion, even for therapeutic reasons, are to be absolutely excluded as lawful means of regulating the number of children. (14) Equally to be condemned, as the magisterium of the Church has affirmed on many occasions, is direct sterilization, whether of the man or of the woman, whether permanent or temporary. (15)

Similarly excluded is any action which either before, at the moment of, or after sexual intercourse, is specifically intended to prevent procreation—whether as an end or as a means. (16)

Neither is it valid to argue, as a justification for sexual intercourse which is deliberately contraceptive, that a lesser evil is to be preferred to a greater one, or that such intercourse would merge with procreative acts of past and future to form a single entity, and so be qualified by exactly the same moral goodness as these. Though it is true that sometimes it is lawful to tolerate a lesser moral evil in order to avoid a greater evil or in order to promote a greater good,” it is never lawful, even for the gravest reasons, to do evil that good may come of it (18)—in other words, to intend directly something which of its very nature contradicts the moral order, and which must therefore be judged unworthy of man, even though the intention is to protect or promote the welfare of an individual, of a family or of society in general. Consequently, it is a serious error to think that a whole married life of otherwise normal relations can justify sexual intercourse which is deliberately contraceptive and so intrinsically wrong.

Lawful Therapeutic Means

15. On the other hand, the Church does not consider at all illicit the use of those therapeutic means necessary to cure bodily diseases, even if a foreseeable impediment to procreation should result there from—provided such impediment is not directly intended for any motive whatsoever. (19)

Recourse to Infertile Periods

16. Now as We noted earlier (no. 3), some people today raise the objection against this particular doctrine of the Church concerning the moral laws governing marriage, that human intelligence has both the right and responsibility to control those forces of irrational nature which come within its ambit and to direct them toward ends beneficial to man. Others ask on the same point whether it is not reasonable in so many cases to use artificial birth control if by so doing the harmony and peace of a family are better served and more suitable conditions are provided for the education of children already born. To this question We must give a clear reply. The Church is the first to praise and commend the application of human intelligence to an activity in which a rational creature such as man is so closely associated with his Creator. But she affirms that this must be done within the limits of the order of reality established by God.

If therefore there are well-grounded reasons for spacing births, arising from the physical or psychological condition of husband or wife, or from external circumstances, the Church teaches that married people may then take advantage of the natural cycles immanent in the reproductive system and engage in marital intercourse only during those times that are infertile, thus controlling birth in a way which does not in the least offend the moral principles which We have just explained. (20)

Neither the Church nor her doctrine is inconsistent when she considers it lawful for married people to take advantage of the infertile period but condemns as always unlawful the use of means which directly prevent conception, even when the reasons given for the later practice may appear to be upright and serious. In reality, these two cases are completely different. In the former the married couple rightly use a faculty provided them by nature. In the later they obstruct the natural development of the generative process. It cannot be denied that in each case the married couple, for acceptable reasons, are both perfectly clear in their intention to avoid children and wish to make sure that none will result. But it is equally true that it is exclusively in the former case that husband and wife are ready to abstain from intercourse during the fertile period as often as for reasonable motives the birth of another child is not desirable. And when the infertile period recurs, they use their married intimacy to express their mutual love and safeguard their fidelity toward one another. In doing this they certainly give proof of a true and authentic love.

Consequences of Artificial Methods

17. Responsible men can become more deeply convinced of the truth of the doctrine laid down by the Church on this issue if they reflect on the consequences of methods and plans for artificial birth control. Let them first consider how easily this course of action could open wide the way for marital infidelity and a general lowering of moral standards. Not much experience is needed to be fully aware of human weakness and to understand that human beings—and especially the young, who are so exposed to temptation—need incentives to keep the moral law, and it is an evil thing to make it easy for them to break that law. Another effect that gives cause for alarm is that a man who grows accustomed to the use of contraceptive methods may forget the reverence due to a woman, and, disregarding her physical and emotional equilibrium, reduce her to being a mere instrument for the satisfaction of his own desires, no longer considering her as his partner whom he should surround with care and affection.

Finally, careful consideration should be given to the danger of this power passing into the hands of those public authorities who care little for the precepts of the moral law. Who will blame a government which in its attempt to resolve the problems affecting an entire country resorts to the same measures as are regarded as lawful by married people in the solution of a particular family difficulty? Who will prevent public authorities from favoring those contraceptive methods which they consider more effective? Should they regard this as necessary, they may even impose their use on everyone. It could well happen, therefore, that when people, either individually or in family or social life, experience the inherent difficulties of the divine law and are determined to avoid them, they may give into the hands of public authorities the power to intervene in the most personal and intimate responsibility of husband and wife.

Limits to Man’s Power

Consequently, unless we are willing that the responsibility of procreating life should be left to the arbitrary decision of men, we must accept that there are certain limits, beyond which it is wrong to go, to the power of man over his own body and its natural functions—limits, let it be said, which no one, whether as a private individual or as a public authority, can lawfully exceed. These limits are expressly imposed because of the reverence due to the whole human organism and its natural functions, in the light of the principles We stated earlier, and in accordance with a correct understanding of the “principle of totality” enunciated by Our predecessor Pope Pius XII. (21)

Concern of the Church

18. It is to be anticipated that perhaps not everyone will easily accept this particular teaching. There is too much clamorous outcry against the voice of the Church, and this is intensified by modern means of communication. But it comes as no surprise to the Church that she, no less than her divine Founder, is destined to be a “sign of contradiction.” (22) She does not, because of this, evade the duty imposed on her of proclaiming humbly but firmly the entire moral law, both natural and evangelical.

Since the Church did not make either of these laws, she cannot be their arbiter—only their guardian and interpreter. It could never be right for her to declare lawful what is in fact unlawful, since that, by its very nature, is always opposed to the true good of man.

In preserving intact the whole moral law of marriage, the Church is convinced that she is contributing to the creation of a truly human civilization. She urges man not to betray his personal responsibilities by putting all his faith in technical expedients. In this way she defends the dignity of husband and wife. This course of action shows that the Church, loyal to the example and teaching of the divine Savior, is sincere and unselfish in her regard for men whom she strives to help even now during this earthly pilgrimage “to share God’s life as sons of the living God, the Father of all men.” (23)

III.
PASTORAL DIRECTIVES

19. Our words would not be an adequate expression of the thought and solicitude of the Church, Mother and Teacher of all peoples, if, after having recalled men to the observance and respect of the divine law regarding matrimony, they did not also support mankind in the honest regulation of birth amid the difficult conditions which today afflict families and peoples. The Church, in fact, cannot act differently toward men than did the Redeemer. She knows their weaknesses, she has compassion on the multitude, she welcomes sinners. But at the same time she cannot do otherwise than teach the law. For it is in fact the law of human life restored to its native truth and guided by the Spirit of God. (24) Observing the Divine Law.

20. The teaching of the Church regarding the proper regulation of birth is a promulgation of the law of God Himself. And yet there is no doubt that to many it will appear not merely difficult but even impossible to observe. Now it is true that like all good things which are outstanding for their nobility and for the benefits which they confer on men, so this law demands from individual men and women, from families and from human society, a resolute purpose and great endurance. Indeed it cannot be observed unless God comes to their help with the grace by which the goodwill of men is sustained and strengthened. But to those who consider this matter diligently it will indeed be evident that this endurance enhances man’s dignity and confers benefits on human society.

Value of Self-Discipline

21. The right and lawful ordering of birth demands, first of all, that spouses fully recognize and value the true blessings of family life and that they acquire complete mastery over themselves and their emotions. For if with the aid of reason and of free will they are to control their natural drives, there can be no doubt at all of the need for self-denial. Only then will the expression of love, essential to married life, conform to right order. This is especially clear in the practice of periodic continence. Self-discipline of this kind is a shining witness to the chastity of husband and wife and, far from being a hindrance to their love of one another, transforms it by giving it a more truly human character. And if this self-discipline does demand that they persevere in their purpose and efforts, it has at the same time the salutary effect of enabling husband and wife to develop to their personalities and to be enriched with spiritual blessings. For it brings to family life abundant fruits of tranquility and peace. It helps in solving difficulties of other kinds. It fosters in husband and wife thoughtfulness and loving consideration for one another. It helps them to repel inordinate self-love, which is the opposite of charity. It arouses in them a consciousness of their responsibilities. And finally, it confers upon parents a deeper and more effective influence in the education of their children. As their children grow up, they develop a right sense of values and achieve a serene and harmonious use of their mental and physical powers.

Promotion of Chastity

22. We take this opportunity to address those who are engaged in education and all those whose right and duty it is to provide for the common good of human society. We would call their attention to the need to create an atmosphere favorable to the growth of chastity so that true liberty may prevail over license and the norms of the moral law may be fully safeguarded.

Everything therefore in the modern means of social communication which arouses men’s baser passions and encourages low moral standards, as well as every obscenity in the written word and every form of indecency on the stage and screen, should be condemned publicly and unanimously by all those who have at heart the advance of civilization and the safeguarding of the outstanding values of the human spirit. It is quite absurd to defend this kind of depravity in the name of art or culture (25) or by pleading the liberty which may be allowed in this field by the public authorities.

Appeal to Public Authorities

23. And now We wish to speak to rulers of nations. To you most of all is committed the responsibility of safeguarding the common good. You can contribute so much to the preservation of morals. We beg of you, never allow the morals of your peoples to be undermined. The family is the primary unit in the state; do not tolerate any legislation which would introduce into the family those practices which are opposed to the natural law of God. For there are other ways by which a government can and should solve the population problem—that is to say by enacting laws which will assist families and by educating the people wisely so that the moral law and the freedom of the citizens are both safeguarded.

Seeking True Solutions

We are fully aware of the difficulties confronting the public authorities in this matter, especially in the developing countries. In fact, We had in mind the justifiable anxieties which weigh upon them when We published Our encyclical letter Populorum Progressio. But now We join Our voice to that of Our predecessor John XXIII of venerable memory, and We make Our own his words: “No statement of the problem and no solution to it is acceptable which does violence to man’s essential dignity; those who propose such solutions base them on an utterly materialistic conception of man himself and his life. The only possible solution to this question is one which envisages the social and economic progress both of individuals and of the whole of human society, and which respects and promotes true human values.” (26) No one can, without being grossly unfair, make divine Providence responsible for what clearly seems to be the result of misguided governmental policies, of an insufficient sense of social justice, of a selfish accumulation of material goods, and finally of a culpable failure to undertake those initiatives and responsibilities which would raise the standard of living of peoples and their children. (27) If only all governments which were able would do what some are already doing so nobly, and bestir themselves to renew their efforts and their undertakings! There must be no relaxation in the programs of mutual aid between all the branches of the great human family. Here We believe an almost limitless field lies open for the activities of the great international institutions.

To Scientists

24. Our next appeal is to men of science. These can “considerably advance the welfare of marriage and the family and also peace of conscience, if by pooling their efforts they strive to elucidate more thoroughly the conditions favorable to a proper regulation of births.” (28) It is supremely desirable, and this was also the mind of Pius XII, that medical science should by the study of natural rhythms succeed in determining a sufficiently secure basis for the chaste limitation of offspring. (29) In this way scientists, especially those who are Catholics, will by their research establish the truth of the Church’s claim that “there can be no contradiction between two divine laws—that which governs the transmitting of life and that which governs the fostering of married love.” (30)

To Christian Couples

25. And now We turn in a special way to Our own sons and daughters, to those most of all whom God calls to serve Him in the state of marriage. While the Church does indeed hand on to her children the inviolable conditions laid down by God’s law, she is also the herald of salvation and through the sacraments she flings wide open the channels of grace through which man is made a new creature responding in charity and true freedom to the design of his Creator and Savior, experiencing too the sweetness of the yoke of Christ. (31)

In humble obedience then to her voice, let Christian husbands and wives be mindful of their vocation to the Christian life, a vocation which, deriving from their Baptism, has been confirmed anew and made more explicit by the Sacrament of Matrimony. For by this sacrament they are strengthened and, one might almost say, consecrated to the faithful fulfillment of their duties. Thus will they realize to the full their calling and bear witness as becomes them, to Christ before the world. (32) For the Lord has entrusted to them the task of making visible to men and women the holiness and joy of the law which united inseparably their love for one another and the cooperation they give to God’s love, God who is the Author of human life.

We have no wish at all to pass over in silence the difficulties, at times very great, which beset the lives of Christian married couples. For them, as indeed for every one of us, “the gate is narrow and the way is hard, that leads to life.” (33) Nevertheless it is precisely the hope of that life which, like a brightly burning torch, lights up their journey, as, strong in spirit, they strive to live “sober, upright and godly lives in this world,” (34) knowing for sure that “the form of this world is passing away.” (35)

Recourse to God

For this reason husbands and wives should take up the burden appointed to them, willingly, in the strength of faith and of that hope which “does not disappoint us, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us ~}36 Then let them implore the help of God with unremitting prayer and, most of all, let them draw grace and charity from that unfailing fount which is the Eucharist. If, however, sin still exercises its hold over them, they are not to lose heart. Rather must they, humble and persevering, have recourse to the mercy of God, abundantly bestowed in the Sacrament of Penance. In this way, for sure, they will be able to reach that perfection of married life which the Apostle sets out in these words: “Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the Church. . . Even so husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no man ever hates his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, as Christ does the Church. . . This is a great mystery, and I mean in reference to Christ and the Church; however, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.” (37)

Family Apostolate

26. Among the fruits that ripen if the law of God be resolutely obeyed, the most precious is certainly this, that married couples themselves will often desire to communicate their own experience to others. Thus it comes about that in the fullness of the lay vocation will be included a novel and outstanding form of the apostolate by which, like ministering to like, married couples themselves by the leadership they offer will become apostles to other married couples. And surely among all the forms of the Christian apostolate it is hard to think of one more opportune for the present time. (38)

To Doctors and Nurses

27. Likewise we hold in the highest esteem those doctors and members of the nursing profession who, in the exercise of their calling, endeavor to fulfill the demands of their Christian vocation before any merely human interest. Let them therefore continue constant in their resolution always to support those lines of action which accord with faith and with right reason. And let them strive to win agreement and support for these policies among their professional colleagues. Moreover, they should regard it as an essential part of their skill to make themselves fully proficient in this difficult field of medical knowledge. For then, when married couples ask for their advice, they may be in a position to give them right counsel and to point them in the proper direction. Married couples have a right to expect this much from them.

To Priests

28. And now, beloved sons, you who are priests, you who in virtue of your sacred office act as counselors and spiritual leaders both of individual men and women and of families—We turn to you filled with great confidence. For it is your principal duty—We are speaking especially to you who teach moral theology—to spell out clearly and completely the Church’s teaching on marriage. In the performance of your ministry you must be the first to give an example of that sincere obedience, inward as well as outward, which is due to the magisterium of the Church. For, as you know, the pastors of the Church enjoy a special light of the Holy Spirit in teaching the truth. (39) And this, rather than the arguments they put forward, is why you are bound to such obedience. Nor will it escape you that if men’s peace of soul and the unity of the Christian people are to be preserved, then it is of the utmost importance that in moral as well as in dogmatic theology all should obey the magisterium of the Church and should speak as with one voice. Therefore We make Our own the anxious words of the great Apostle Paul and with all Our heart We renew Our appeal to you: “I appeal to you, brethren, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree and that there be no dissensions among you, but that you be united in the same mind and the same judgment.” (40)

Christian Compassion

29. Now it is an outstanding manifestation of charity toward souls to omit nothing from the saving doctrine of Christ; but this must always be joined with tolerance and charity, as Christ Himself showed in His conversations and dealings with men. For when He came, not to judge, but to save the world, (41) was He not bitterly severe toward sin, but patient and abounding in mercy toward sinners?

Husbands and wives, therefore, when deeply distressed by reason of the difficulties of their life, must find stamped in the heart and voice of their priest the likeness of the voice and the love of our Redeemer.

So speak with full confidence, beloved sons, convinced that while the Holy Spirit of God is present to the magisterium proclaiming sound doctrine, He also illumines from within the hearts of the faithful and invites their assent. Teach married couples the necessary way of prayer and prepare them to approach more often with great faith the Sacraments of the Eucharist and of Penance. Let them never lose heart because of their weakness.

To Bishops

30. And now as We come to the end of this encyclical letter, We turn Our mind to you, reverently and lovingly, beloved and venerable brothers in the episcopate, with whom We share more closely the care of the spiritual good of the People of God. For We invite all of you, We implore you, to give a lead to your priests who assist you in the sacred ministry, and to the faithful of your dioceses, and to devote yourselves with all zeal and without delay to safeguarding the holiness of marriage, in order to guide married life to its full human and Christian perfection. Consider this mission as one of your most urgent responsibilities at the present time. As you well know, it calls for concerted pastoral action in every field of human diligence, economic, cultural and social. If simultaneous progress is made in these various fields, then the intimate life of parents and children in the family will be rendered not only more tolerable, but easier and more joyful. And life together in human society will be enriched with fraternal charity and made more stable with true peace when God’s design which He conceived for the world is faithfully followed.

A Great Work

31. Venerable brothers, beloved sons, all men of good will, great indeed is the work of education, of progress and of charity to which We now summon all of you. And this We do relying on the unshakable teaching of the Church, which teaching Peter’s successor together with his brothers in the Catholic episcopate faithfully guards and interprets. And We are convinced that this truly great work will bring blessings both on the world and on the Church. For man cannot attain that true happiness for which he yearns with all the strength of his spirit, unless he keeps the laws which the Most High God has engraved in his very nature. These laws must be wisely and lovingly observed. On this great work, on all of you and especially on married couples, We implore from the God of all holiness and pity an abundance of heavenly grace as a pledge of which We gladly bestow Our apostolic blessing.

Given at St. Peter’s, Rome, on the 25th day of July, the feast of St. James the Apostle, in the year 1968, the sixth of Our pontificate.

PAUL VI

THE RESTRUCTURING DEBACLE – MYTHS AND REALITIES

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THE RESTRUCTURING DEBACLE – MYTHS AND REALITIES

It took me a while to get involved in the restructuring debate.. or is it a debacle? Like they say of the stock market, ‘when your gateman starts to tell you what stocks to buy, that is the time to get out of the market’. No offenses meant at gatemen. They too are financially savvy these days. But what this means is that some things become cliched and then lose their value. In other words, at some point everyone who had a point was cocksure that once Nigeria restructured all its problems will be over. Different definitions of the phenomenon thus appeared, from the academic to the radical. That became confusing. It was tough – still is – to know what restructuring ‘Nigeriana’ actually means.

One thing was certain; most of the calls for restructuring had a tinge of angst in it. Many proponents come from the angle of the many injustices that we have wrought on ourselves in Nigeria. Many are cocksure today that we are a different people – from north to south – and there was no need trying to stitch and glue us together. They are of the view that there is an urgent need to eradicate federal character and quota systems and the inefficiencies they foster, to do away with resource or revenue sharing, to institute a situation where every ‘region’ will be on its own and mind its own business, to bring about ‘true federalism, institute a merit-driven society, and so on. At a recent TV appearance I made, a serving senator, while disagreeing that the quest for restructuring is borne out of angst and a quest for seperatism, twice repeated the widely held view that some parts of the country were parasitic to the rest and it would be great for regions (usually marked out by tribal affiliations) to go on their own. And in another breath, the senator was asking for the creation of one more south eastern state, as a starting point. Confusing, if not bizarre.

For me, I spent a lot of time ruminating and trying to figure out what people were asking for, plus how whatever we are demanding for will not put us into even more trouble. We have seen many situations in this country where we chase a new situation with all our might, only to be quite disappointed when we get what we want. Then we resume the bellyaching. We need to deal with the cognitive bias that makes us believe that yesterday is always better than today as well. For one, there are many issues around regionalism that we need to deal with. And indeed, a thorough analysis of the ‘halcyon’ first republic is required. Nigeria wasn’t this complicated in the regionalism era. Our population wasn’t this large. And majority didn’t mind remaining in rural areas. In short there are many intervening variables that have not been figured into the equation by many who want us to return to the days of regionalism when according to them ‘there was healthy competition among the regions’. It just sounds like a reversion to a time we should have outgrown, for me.

My own thoughts are around what restructuring should be, not what people say it is.

RESTRUCTURING SHOULD BE CONSTANT, CONSISTENT AND VALUE-DRIVEN

Restructuring should be about continuous assessment. It should be built into the day-to-day administration of a nation, a state or local government. Restructuring should be about socio-political and economic innovation. In other words, every other 4 or 5 years, a thinking and progressive people should always assess the outcomes and impact of their ideologies, policies, administrative and other tools, approaches and strategies by which the people are impacted, and tweak things around. Restructuring should be like technology. Technology is not static. What drives innovation in technology? It is comfort, convenience, affordability, utility, and a general feeling of progress for people. It is the pursuit of happiness that drives innovation in technology. Those who innovate understand that people desire a sweeter, easier life and they work hard at providing it – for a price. The same pursuit of happiness for everyone should drive sociopolitical Agboola Taiwo:
and economic innovation, otherwise called RESTRUCTURING. The taxes a people pay is the price for innovation in governance; the price for constant restructuring.

So we oughtn’t have waited until it became a crisis, and a platform for conflict, agitation, mutual distrust and mistrust, and so on. And going forward, we must never wait until it becomes totally inevitable, with all constituent parts of our nation angling, jostling, complaining and agitating for reforms before we start thinking of restructuring. Some are even still resisting when restructuring should be built into our day to day life. We cannot just remain good for purchasing other people’s technological, sociopolitical or economic innovations while being static where we should be dynamic. This is the bane of the black African and Nigeria especially and we will one day pay dearly for being so slow and docile in every department. Don’t ever imagine that we have paid enough. It will get worse.

Explained in this manner, restructuring should not be a thing for some parts of Nigeria alone. It should be the desire for all constituent parts of Nigeria. Every citizen should have something they want reformed, amended or innovated in the way we are being governed. Why? More than half of Nigeria is in extreme poverty, meaning that the other half is in trouble, since poverty is increasing according to all available indices. I am not sure that poverty is a happy space for anyone to be in, even though the rat race for money also doesn’t guarantee happiness. Restructuring is about melding the two positions and letting the people see the fact that there is value in life, beyond the rat race and that there are bigger pursuits and ideals, to live for.

A SHRINKING, UNHAPPY ECONOMIC SPACE

We live today in a country where human lives are cheap and no one knows what they will encounter around the corner. State governors sit on huge amounts as security votes which they convert to personal use, yet they complain of not being in charge of the security apparatus of their states. The killings and clashes are perhaps enough reason to restructure the police, because people no longer feel safe at all in their own country. For me, state policing is now a fait accompli, and the advantages outweigh the disadvantages. Why? Populations have increased for one. Humans are now more mobile. Economic deprivation and mismanagement over the years have made people more prone to all sorts of crimes. So the policing controlled from Abuja is no longer adequate. The result of centralized policing is the situation where at least 50% of our policemen have been hijacked by the elites. This is a great indictment which I could never forgive Buhari for. He may not have started the elitisation of the police but the has done nothing about it in spite of the evidence to the extent that this is a great disservice to the common Nigerian. State policing has another advantage which no one is talking about; the security votes governors now spend on their ego trips should become part of their state police budgets. How’s that for starters?

From an economic angle, the neglect of most parts of Nigeria to the extent that only cities feel the presence of government (especially state capitals and the federal capital territory), has resulted in the shrinking of the economic space, sporadic crimes, rural-urban drift, and general social malaise. Is this not a reason to restructure by inverting the revenue sharing formula to something like 25% for Federal, 35% for States and 40% for LGs (which should be jointly administered by a committee of federal and state operatives so as to prevent the current hijack by state governors). The consistent complaint of state governments that they are unable to get anything done is also another excuse to restructure duties so that states can generate more money, assist companies set up and trading within their states and make remittances of taxes and/or royalties to the federal for onward disbursement for sundry purposes. It is untrue that ‘true federalism’, pardon the pun, is a sit Agboola Taiwo:
uation where every state stands totally and solely on its own. Nowhere in the world does that happen. In all developed federalisms, the federal still kicks some funds to states, and favor those which are more deprived. In the USA it is called Block Grants (for general use by the state) and Categorical Grants (for specific purposes). In Canada, the Federal government also supports states and even local counties. Many countries have also fused presidential and parliamentary systems successfully. So the search for a perfect form of government is a futility. Like every law, the system of government depends on who is working it. Nigerians are not particularly great at working our laws, or perhaps any system of government.

I therefore believe that there are already areas where we can begin to chip away at this famously large powers of the federal government. We can take state policing. We can take rail and power. We can take prisons. We should take marriage laws. We can take solid mineral rights. The bills for these can be floated individually so that hiccups in one doesn’t affect others. This will be a good place to start. We must however ensure that we don’t jump from the federal frying pan to the states fire.

I refuse to go with the regionalism talk. It sounds rather archaic to me. We talk of the halcyon days where all was well. We cannot be talking of reverting to regional governments in an already globalized world. We should be thinking bigger. We should be thinking of borderless countries. One person made the analogy that whereas Nigeria is pursuing African integration, at home we are as divided as ever. We are global citizens but at home we are tribalists. The talk of regionalism always harks back to tribalism. The regions of old were marked out along tribal fissures. However the demarcations were rough. Most of Kwara was in the north for example, but there are Yoruba-speaking people aplenty there. All of Benue was in northern region but Benue is quite diverse culturally. Benin, Esan and the old Bendel State were all part of Western Region but you cannot go back to that western region today without protests. Perhaps what is more reprehensible compared to the proposed tribalisation of Nigeria (because some people see themselves as better capable, more enlightened and better endowed than others), is the call in some quarters for the creation of more states. All of our states are centres of profligacy. Yet we want more.

I believe it is imperative for the young people of this country to take control of this debate and make their voices heard. It is we old people that socialize our young ones to begin to develop that parochialism that sees only people like us as perfect and the rest flawed and evil. Otherwise the young people of Nigeria should let it be known that they are ready to take the debate forward, don their thinking caps and forge the unity required for progress in this country. They should take control of their own future from these analogue people whose thinking is locked in only one direction; segregation, separatism, disguised in different forms. This will require that our youths take responsibility for the state of the nation immediately. It is not good enough to act confused and wait to be led. I hear many of them talk of being confused as to which leader to choose for the n ext phase in Nigeria. I hear them express despair. But I reply that the youth should first trust themselves each person. When they trust each other to do the job and not screw it all up further, half of the jobs is done.

A LESSON IN ANTHROPOLOGY

I always repeat this fact when trying to convince particularly adamant people that geopolitical restructuring will be tough and that what we should focus on first is economic restructuring. I believe strongly that if our governments should focus strongly on reducing income inequality, creating jobs and ensuring an acceptable minimum standard of living for all Nigerians, the clamor for restructuring – especially the geopolitical aspect – will reduce and will be less volatile. If howevAgboola Taiwo:
er the question is posed today, with all the hunger in the land, Nigerians will almost unanimously opt for regionalism and from there on the next chorus will be that everyone goes there separate ways. Many people have warned, and I also believe, that once you start to split Nigeria you may never stop. I will explain why.

Growing up I picked up the game of Scrabble. Those days we had to rely on a large Chambers Dictionary. We discovered many new, crazy words. But I also discovered the word ‘etymology’. It is the study of the origin of words and how words have changed over time. I discovered many English words had Latin, German, Roman, French origins, and so also for words from those countries. I realized way back then that no nation is an island and all nations are influenced first of all by neighbors north, east, west and south, and also by wars, conflicts, reconciliations, intermarriages, trade, cultural events and so on. Historically, most nations are fused. In a country like Nigeria therefore, most of what we call tribes have no geographical limits or boundaries. I have commenced a kind of research into this. I have seen how Yorubaland melts into Igala and Edo, how Edo melts into Delta and Igbo, how Igbo bleeds into Benue, Efik and Ibibio, and how Ibibio and Efik ebbs into other tribes in Cameroun. I have seen how the Hausa language is different from Sokoto to Kano, to Bauchi. People who don’t understand a language deeply are unable to tell the different strains and accents. I have seen similarities in words from one tribe to another, that tell a story of a long, undocumented history of a time when we may have been more united than we are in this age of globalization and gadgets of communication.

The research continues. I will reveal it one day. But mind you we must not just assume it will be easy to start a new regional arrangement. Reverting to old regions will be impossible. I don’t see Edo and Delta people agreeing to be under a Western Region. The proposed Middle Belt region will be a bag of confusion and strife as there are more than 200 nations and languages in what is today known unofficially as the Middle Belt.

For now, let the youth of this country come together, banish old, divisive talk, do something new, and take this country forward. We have the means of multiple communication in our hands. Let us jaw jaw. I believe there is a way out. Let us put our slow, biased, dark-minded, parochial, myopic non-leaders at every level, under immense pressure… because we can see the light. And it is given unto our generation, to unite this country for progress, peace and prosperity unforetold.

(NB
an article by Tope Fasua, Chairman of Abundant Nigeria Renewal Party -ANRP).

Facts about Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder

7 Signs You Have PTSD From Your Past Relationship That You Probably Never Realized
ByAMANDA CHATEL

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Trauma, all levels of it, can have a serious impact on our lives, even if we don’t realize it immediately. Sometimes it can even be hard to recognize, as not all signs are expected or clear. While not everyone who witnesses or is part of a traumatic event will end up with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), the possibility still exists.

According to the World Health Organization, roughly 3.6 percent of the world’s population has suffered from PTSD. In the United States, it’s estimated that 7.8 percent of people will experience PTSD at some point in their lifetime, with women two times more likely than men to suffer from it.

“Some of the more expected signs of traditional PTSD symptoms: depressed mood; feeling sad, hopeless and questioning the point of it all,” Melanie Shapiro, LICSW, who specializes in traumatic experiences, tells Bustle. “Feeling like your life or relationship pattern will never change. [Also] isolating [oneself]. Not engaging in new relationships, withdrawing from friends, and potential new partners. Flashbacks, too: in new relationships and re-living old experiences from the past as if they are happening now.”

But while there’s no denying those are the expected signs of PTSD, it’s the unexpected signs, the ones that sort of creep up on you, that are really worth noting. Here’s exactly what to look out for.

1Finding Yourself In Circles Of Repetition

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Although you may not see it at first, according to Shapiro, repetition is a big, yet unexpected sign that you’re suffering from PTSD from your past relationship.

“Finding yourself in another unhealthy relationship, feeling like you deserve to be treated badly (a false idea) that was learned from your previous traumatic relationship [are signs],” says Shapiro. “Even in friendships, or family relations, finding yourself in uncomfortable situations where you feel badly about yourself and you have a decrease sense of self-worth.”

If there’s anyplace where you shouldn’t feel badly or uncomfortable is amongst family, but PTSD makes the opposite true.

2Blowing Even Minor Things Out Of Proportion

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“Trauma can make us hypercritical of someone else’s behavior that manifests as an overreaction,” behavioral scientist and relationship coach Clarissa Silva tells Bustle. “Overreaction to minor things can be caused by past trauma that created anxiety, insecurity, immaturity, tendency to bully, or being bullied.”

Even if the scars aren’t visible, they’re there and they play a major role in how we act and react. It’s as if you’re constantly on the defensive, so mole hills are often made into unnecessary mountains.

3Being Overly Protective

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When you’ve been hurt, and so badly that it qualifies as trauma, emotionally and physically closing yourself off seems like the best way to deal. But, as Shapiro explains, it’s not just about closing yourself off out of fear, but hiding things about yourself too, as well as practicing self-sacrifice. What this means is that you don’t tell your new partner what you need and you let them make all the decisions in the relationship, simply because it feels easier than rocking the boat and getting hurt again.

4Trying To Self-Medicate

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Although we all deal with trauma in our own ways, some turn to self-medicating. If you’re unsure you have PTSD, taking matters into your own hands to try to “fix” the problem seems like the best idea. However, it’s not.

“When you are coping with trauma, you can turn to something to help you cope,” says Silva. “Drinking, eating, recreational drugging are ways to cope or self-medicate away the problem. You might not be aware that you are binging because your subconscious is creating a different reality for you and your tolerance level increases based on consumption over time.”

5Keeping Yourself Numb

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When you get into a new relationship, you shouldn’t just want to feel things, but can’t help but feel things. But if you’re experiencing PTSD from your last relationship, you might not even allow yourself to feel anything at all.

“Not allowing yourself to feel the positive or negative feelings in a new relationship [is a sign],” says Shapiro. [As if] feeling nothing is often better than being open to the potential abuse you have felt in the past.”

6Allowing Yourself To Settle

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Since PTSD can destroy your self-worth, it makes you far more likely to not just settle, but accept so much less than you deserve. “[S]ettling usually occurs because you have gone through a series of relationships and find yourself thinking ‘I’m going to make this work,'” says Silva.

7Over-Activating Your Senses

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If you’re over-thinking and over-feeling, says Shapiro, while being on guard or fearing that everything you do or say is wrong, then that’s another unexpected sign you might have PTSD from your past relationship. You should never feel like you’re walking on egg shells in your relationship; you should feel like you’re an equal partner and your voice, thoughts, and opinions matter.

PTSD is treatable, but first it needs to be recognized, by seeing both the expected and unexpected signs that come with it. It’s also important to realize that not all relationships, just like not all people, are the same. Just because you have one traumatic relationship, it’s not as though you’re doomed to only those going forward.

“It is healthy and normal to protect yourself from future traumatic experiences,” says Shapiro. “However, when it gets in the way of engaging in future potential healthy relationships it is important to address fears and behaviors. Just because your last relationship was traumatic it does not mean your next one will be! You can work to identity healthy partners and healthy patterns with a therapist, you can learn to trust others and yourself to be in a happy healthy relationship!

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The Chairman, Justrite Superstores – Ayodele Aderinwale

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The Retail Economy of Singapore

Singapore is a cosmopolitan shopping destination, home to trendsetting global fashion, international flagship stores, and local designer brands. In 2016, Singapore’s 22,000 retail establishments employed about 3% of the nation’s total workforce, generated S$35 billion in operating receipts, and contributed 1.4% to the country’s GDP.

The retail industry spans a diverse range of businesses, from supermarkets and convenience stores to fashion and sporting goods. What everyone has in common is the challenge posed by new technology and changing consumer preferences, leading the industry to evolve from brick-and-mortar retailing to embracing e-commerce.

To revamp the retail industry, a national plan to upgrade the capabilities of companies encourages retailers to adapt and innovate to remain relevant. The Retail Industry Transformation Map (ITM) will develop a vibrant retail industry, with highly productive retailers and globally recognised local brands. This includes shifting to digital platforms, with an aim to grow the e-commerce share of total retail receipts from the current 3% to 10% by 2020.

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Standard Settings in sectors (SSS)

Many businesses – from food manufacturing to construction – of all sizes benefit from standards. Standards help your company to improve the quality of your products and services, reach new customers and markets, improve performance and enhance growth. By meeting standards, your business can also better collaborate with partners, create new products, build trust and stay competitive.

How do you adopt standards in your company?
Here is what you need to know when adopting standards:

Step 1: Define your objectives for implementing the standard

Step 2: Identify key processes and systems as laid out in the standard that will help you achieve your objectives

Step 3: Obtain buy-in from top management and employees in committing to the initiative

Step 4: Establish resources required, e.g. personnel, time, infrastructure, finance or grants

National Development and Standards

Standards play a strategic role in adding value to our economy and improving the quality of our lives. They provide solutions and bring benefits to almost all business activities and industries. They serve to facilitate international trade, raise productivity and efficiency, catalyse technological innovations, and share good management systems and best practices. Standards also improve safety, health and environmental protection.

Indeed, consumer behaviour has changed tremendously over the last decade. Consumers are increasingly demanding for safer products of better quality. Products and services which comply with standards give confidence and assurance to customers. For SMEs whose brands are lesser known, standards immediately add credibility to the company and the products and services they offer.

This has a trickle-down effect because many MNCs demand for their suppliers to adhere to the same standards. For example, medical devices can only be sold in Singapore by companies that have attained a medical device manufacturer’s licence from the Health Sciences Authority (HSA), and ISO 13485 Certification is one of the prerequisites for obtaining the licence. Precision engineering companies with ISO 13485 Certification are thus in a better position to supply sub-components to these medical devices companies. Hence, standards allow SMEs to enter into business transactions with MNCs and can potentially increase their customer base.

Standards are also capable of enhancing market access. The international recognition accorded to their products gives certified companies a competitive advantage when exporting their products overseas. Given the small domestic market, adoption of standards becomes even more crucial for SMEs that wish to expand into overseas markets. Indeed, early adoption of standards even allows companies to gain a competitive edge over their competitors. Companies can even make use of emerging standards to open up new markets.

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