Quite many times we dream dreams. We imagine and envisage things; sometimes we see our future before us as a sneak peek. We see ourselves in the life of others. We look at our parents and imagine that day that they will be no more, well-aged though we hope.
They share the message in the neighbourhood, at the church or school, Mr….just passed, GrandPa passed away our classmate passed for us to see no more.
Honestly, they make no meaning until we grew older in life. You begin to fear failure and death at the expense of life in itself.
Religion offers us so much hope against fear and death. Yet, we still doubt dying ever until we become victims of circumstance; to sickness, ailment or disease. The religious hope will then become embraceable.
For those unmarried, single, spinster or aged single lots of thoughts runs through either to be married ever or develop a new mindset. These mindsets come with age also. A prophet said I will be this and that in the future. A new future came in marriage whether you achieved the former prophecy or not. If you are lucky enough to have your dreams fulfilled, you think you have the best life. Congratulations!
Some of us, have the best of the best of things around but have allowed fear of failure to fail after all. A seer told you, your spouse is a man of the opposite sex, not to worry we shall do (work) something about it.
A seer told you if you allow your spouse to go abroad, she will leave you for another man, child or no child, but we shall do something about it.
Meanwhile, your spouse is ignorantly ignorant of all these you walked yourself into. The good things you have worked for begin to clamp down gradually. The moment you got the message, doubts, distrust, setbacks, fear and irreverence begins to set in your mind to develop a new mindset either in your marriage, courtships or relationships.
These are one of the many ways we play into our failure. A man will always be a man while a woman will always be answerable to one man by creation.
There is no equality between men and women but balance, which is determined by mutuality.
Instead of promoting Gender equality, we should be promoting Gender balancing. There can never be any equality between men and women. With balancing, we weigh with consideration that:
- Pregnancy
- Natural weakness
- Childbearing
- Menstruation
- These four tendencies naturally make inequality substantial and circumstantial.
- The most common problem for all is influencing. Lots of things influence us all, parenting, school, religious group, society, books, games, devices and the internet.
- A set of children were raised at home, schooled at home, the church at home etc. The University could not hold them back, they got their freedom expensively in a life moment unused to. One of them shared this as a Professor. Influencing is Key! It could either be positive or negative.
- What is your fear? What makes you afraid? Your spouse’s way of life or your future? Many homes have been shattered by this conceived fear by one false prophet or the other.
- Prophesies are for correction and guidance. How is the prophecy you are given influencing you and your mindset? Some do not even believe in prophecy at all.
- As humans, we are blessed with dreams and visions. We should seek genuine counsel and not rely on visions. False seers will always see while the truthful ones seek counsel to counsel you. God did speak to Adam, Abraham, Joseph, Moses, and Elijah but not every day. Why do want to hear God speak every time at all?
- When we fail to develop our gifts, we run after seers all the time. By so doing, we play into our failure for the sake of fear.
- Have your time for God through Christ Jesus. We can change prophecies in our private devotions. The Lord is available unto us all the time. Seek sound counsel and not a prophecy for a true prophecy to be revealed. The case of Hanna, the second wife proved this. The Prophet heard or saw nothing until his encounter with Hanna in her drunkenness kind of prayer. God spoke!
- Seek good counsel and again, seek good counsel. Lord Jesus Christ in Matthew 16, rebuked an evil and adulterous generation that seeks after Miracles (signs and wonders). Meanwhile, most preachers today do such.
- Listen, before you play your fears into your failure by being influenced wrongly. We are all victims only the Grace of God has set some of us apart.
David SST.
- The most common problem for all is influencing. Lots of things influence us all, parenting, school, religious group, society, books, games, devices and the internet.





































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